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Made For Each Other

Very common for people to say, 'Hey, you both look so good together! Like made for each other'. 
But, there isn't such thing as made for each other in this whole wide world.
you may ask me, how about those people who are still together making through everything. 
for me, its still the same. 

This is because, these people are those who are strong in their will of making their love a 'made for each other'.
What I'm trying to say is that, 'made for each other' doesn't exist from birth. it is created through love, understanding and commitment. the more one trusts and is willing to make the relationship work, the better made for each other they create.

nowadays, there are more break-ups then on-going relationships. this is perhaps because,
* Couples tend to think that they are not made for each other. when in fact, its their responsibility to make the relationship a 'made for each other'.
* Couples realize their mistakes but they conceal the truth that they had already realized.. when in fact, they are being egoists.
* Couples tend to think that the relationship or love has faded away. when in fact, it is them who lacked in showing their love.
* Couples feel that they had totally understood the partners. when in fact, there is never a time where a person can be fully understood even if it had been a century.
* Couples tend to ask opinions from others whom they think are good at it. when in fact, they themselves are the best people in mending their relationship.
* Couples feel that it is the end of them (relationship) when keep fighting. when in fact, the     fights are the one which make them know each other well.

There can be on-going reasons why there are more break-ups nowadays..
Because, people don't see the point of the fights they had..
Once, they understand the value of the relationship and the fights they have, then break-ups might never exist.
This is because,
only through fights and mistakes, one learns about love and relationships.
it is love, only when one fights.
Compromising, understanding, trusting and repeatedly falling in love is the main key to have a made for each other relationship.

Our grandparents are the best example for these.. there might be not a day where they don't fight, but there can never be a day where they never talk to each other too.. this is love. this is the real relationship. this is made for each other.

There aren't any 'made for each other' in this world.. Create the 'made for each other' with the one you love.. and there, a new made for each other is happily leading the life, despite all the mistakes and fights.

Learn from the mess u make in your relationships and keep falling in love..
for, it is hard to find the right one whom you like and love. so don't do the grave mistake by separating just because you feel that you are not made for each other. It's you who have to create it, as it doesn't come on its own.. ^^

Dedicated to me-him ^^  and also to every other people who are in a relationship.. especially to those who want to create the relation a made for each other.. >.<

Live to Love.. <3 <3

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